The goal of all Online & Mobile Dating is to make a real, in-person connection. If you’ve created a great profile and are communicating well on your Online Dating site of choice, this should be a natural next step.
But getting someone to agree to meet with you on a date does require you to do things right. You have to make them feel safe and comfortable enough that they’re willing to take the risk to meet you, but also excited and intrigued enough that they want to meet you. Everything from how you make the invitation to meet to the location you suggest can make the difference between sparks flying or you partner running out the door.
Not to mention, you do want to consider your own safety and comfort, regardless of if you’re a woman or a man. If you don’t feel comfortable, you won’t be able to present your best self. Be smart and safe and you’ll have a great time. We’ve put together a series of articles covering everything from making the invitation to meet, to choosing a great first date spot, to staying safe and comfortable.