Finding the perfect playmate or longer dating partner is not an easy task no matter what angle you approach it from. That is why making the most out of all the information about online and hookup dating you can find is so important. Narrowing your possibilities is already a step in the right direction. It will always be more difficult throwing everything you can think of out there hoping something sticks than it is to settle on the person you want to attract and honing in on what is going to appeal to her. Going from anyone in Britain to just the ones that like to game is a step in the right direction. If you end up changing your mind later, it is easy enough to redo your profile or come up with a new approach entirely. Cast the net too wide and you won’t catch anything.
The PC Gamer That Is Always Playing Something
When the woman you are interested in spends all of her time on a computer and most of that time playing video games, chances are she is splitting her time between what she really wants to do and what she has to do. More than likely she is just familiar using the computer and probably has other pastimes that utilize this too. This is someone who will spend the majority of their time on the computer not because they are constantly entertained by it, but because she is used to it. While she may legitimately enjoy her hobbies, it is also very likely that there is a level of laziness involved and a preference for the familiar.
This can be somewhat adjusted if she plays very competitive games and especially if those games have ladders or competition that she competes in. More than likely, however, you are dealing with someone who prefers sticking with what she knows, being able to really customize things to exactly how she likes them, and who prefers a sort of efficient laziness.
This can mean a few things right from the start. First is that when you approach her, your best bet to entice her is to keep the conversation focused on how she benefits. While not entirely selfish, she will want to know that there is a point to what she is doing and that there is something in it for her explicitly. Keep in mind that most women go into casual sex know they have a lower chance of actually enjoying themselves than they would have if they slept with someone they were in a committed relationship with.
Someone like this, especially, is going to need to know that bothering at all to arrange for things and actually meet up will be worth her while. That often means taking care of all of the details as well. Where you are going, when you will be there, information about sex dating, and the rest. Of course, if she happens to be the competitive kind, you might be in for more than you think.
When Her Primary Device Is a Mobile System
This could be a phone, tablet, or an actual, portable gaming device of her choice. The only major difference between the three is whether she is using a device specifically for gaming, or is using one that has multiple uses. One specifically for gaming usually means she is going out of her way for the sake of playing a game, while the other matches the chance of practicality with that of convenience. Having a movie system as her preferred method of gaming does not necessarily imply that she is a casual gamer and saying as much will probably get on her bad side. There are many people that simply prefer having the ability to game at all times and she is probably one of them. This typically means she is more interested in immediate gratification than anything else.
If, however, her main platform of choice happens to be a phone or tablet, there is a very good chance that she is actually rather new to gaming. This can work to your advantage when you are trying to find a way of piquing her interest from the start. Any woman in Britain who signs up for a dating site is going to have hundreds of options to choose from in short order. Being the one guy with a different initial message is often all it take to actually get somewhere with her.
The Avid Console Gamer
Then, of course, there is the good old fashioned console gamer. Either she is using the same system she has had since forever, and constantly digs through used game racks for pieces of gaming history, or she has the newest system available. Usually, she is going to be very brand loyal with a very specific kind of game she enjoys. If, however, your search for information about sex dating caused you to stumble across someone who has been into gaming for a long while, there is a good chance that she is a little of both. This, friend, is the gaming connoisseur.
Someone like this is a rare find indeed, and we wouldn’t blame you from wanting a bit of that action. Someone who spends that much of their life devoted to a hobby that most still consider to be dominated by men is someone who gets what she wants, eventually. This usually transfers into her being willing, once you are behind closed doors, of course, to try out something new and different for one or both of you.
This sort of woman also reacts well to being approached both with soft advances like talking about her hobby and seduction as well as something far more straightforward. In this rare instance, one is often as good as the other. If she put herself out there by signing up for a sex dating site, approaching her straight on may actually be your best bet. In fact, even if she is not very well versed on the old stuff, but still really into the newer releases, especially if they are competitive games, this can still be the preferred method. It’s not every day you can find a woman that responds that favorably to the direct approach, so have some fun with it while you can!
When There Is No Primary Method
Of course, there is always the chance that there is no particular platform she really gets behind. A lot of times, this has to do with scattered interest or a loss of wages that prevents her from pursuing the newer options available to her. The console entry market, in particular, his a high cost of entry at the moment, and the used game market shrinking as more content is linked to online accounts.
Knowing which you are dealing with can help with your approach, but in either case, the best option is to be a little softer and more roundabout overall. This will often mean having to seduce and entice rather than straight up suggest or request anything, even for those you meet online. They want to be convinced it is worth their time and may already be in something of a mood before you ever meet them, so something that makes her feel good is bound to work better.